Hello my name is Valencia but you can call me V. After years of damaging my hair, I knew there had to be a better way. So I decided to take the path to go natual and lock up. I was Sisterlcoked from June 2006 until Sept 2010 (4yrs). In which during that time I truly enjoyed my hair freedom. Unfortunately my journey had to come to end due to post partum hair loss. I have recently started a new journey this past September, and looking forward to all the ups and downs. As a new Sisterlocks™ Consultant I want to give women and men that same freedom.



Sunday, July 25, 2010

Black Love : Anniversary

Lately I'm often finding myself in a loving mood, which is good. I think my hormones are starting to return back to normal, since the baby.

Pic is from Jan 2009, but I love it!

Earlier this month me and the hubby celebrated our 6 year anniversary. I can't believe it's been that long. I must say that marriage is getting easier. We are truly blessed. I think we are over the hard part. Don't get me wrong I know that I cant tell the future, I just figure by now it shouldn't be hard to deal with situations if they ever occured. We basically know each other now and know how to deal with one another without stepping on each other's toes. I thank God that neither one of us like to argue(we are both quiet) so it doesn't happen often. I can probably count on one hand how many times we argued. Which is good because arguing leads to fighting and fighthing is so not worht it. Thank you God for the drama free relationship. I will say that communication plays a major role in any relationship. Communication will never get old, and you never can have enough of it. So if your not communicating start and if you already communicating, communicate some more!

I just want to thank God for putting this man(J) in my life. We've known each other since high school. The 2nd time I layed eyes on him
(definitely not the first, lol) I dreamed of marrying this man and having his kids. Years and years went by but we stayed in touch. We did our own thing and then God opened both our hearts to receieve one another. Every since then it has been great. I believe I knew we were meant to be together before he did so thats why we remained friends. He's my friend of 14 years my best of 9 and my Husband of 6. I thank God for allowing us to have kids together, their is no greater joy. I'm really happy about the life that I have and the Black Love as well.

The Family @ Beni Hana's


SN: I recently came upon this new movie(documentary) and wanted to share the link with you all. Happily Ever After: A Positive Image of Black Marriage. This movie came out on DVD this month. I look forward to watching it, it's great that the director and writers wanted to shed some light on the positive's about Black love instead of the negative. You can find this on Amazon, Here's the link http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002K7B780.

I'm sure you could find this documentary on other websites, or maybe @ your local movie rental places.

Just felt like sharing. I think Black Love is Amazing and it always will be!

Until Next Time Much Love!

9 comments:

Titus 2 Thandi said...

Happy belated anniversary!!!

Bajan Lily said...

Happy Anniversary Valencia and thanks for sharing this. May you have many many many more fruitful years together.

Natural High said...

V, You have such a beautiful family and you did a great job on your husbands brotherlocks. Keep up the great work!

~*~RBG~*~ said...

Happy Anniversary! Nice post.

Lady Butterfly said...

ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL LOVE!!!CONGRATULATIONS GIRLY!!!

3girlsmomma said...

What a beautiful testament of marital love and commitment. Congratulations to you both...keep the "home fires burning" with God as the center of your joy!

Cashana said...

Aah! This is so nice.

Charizma00! Braidlocks and More said...

You and your husband are a blessing to see, the family is absoluelty gorgeous. Congrats and I'll be stopping by :-)

V @ Locks-N-Motion said...

Thanks ladies for all the wonderful compliments. I really appreciate it.

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